“Daughters of Jerusalem, we charge you: don’t arouse or awaken love until it therefore desires.” Song of Solomon 8:4
My twenties, that are quickly arriving at a close, have now been full of wonderful friendships with females my age and lots of who will be a couple of years — ok, a decade — younger than me. Our conversations cover all areas of life, but few subjects increase to the top significantly more than concerns in regards to the different quantities of physical closeness in relationships.
A majority of these talks get started with, “we know sex is from the dining table, exactly what could I do?” Every woman I’ve talked with appears to have a different do-or-die, “do not cross” line. This range ranges from no hand-holding to no intercourse, although i have talked with ladies who don’t also set that as being a boundary.